When you decide to grow your family through adoption, you begin the process by choosing an adoption attorney. Adopting a child is a significant life event, so it’s important to find the right attorney for your needs. Below are some tips to help you select an adoption attorney in Florida.
Research Attorneys
You likely already have a short list of attorneys to consider. Now, you need to research each one. First, make sure the lawyer is licensed to work in Florida and is in good standing with the bar association. Beyond those initial requirements, look for evidence of their reputation. You can find ratings and reviews on websites such as AVVO. Also, check to see if they are a member of the Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproduction Attorneys. This organization has highly vetted adoption and assisted reproduction attorneys dedicated to the competent and ethical practice of adoption and assisted reproduction law. Finally, if you know people who have been through the adoption process, ask for their recommendations.
Schedule a Consultation
After you have researched attorneys, speak with the ones you are considering. You may schedule an in-person meeting or speak with them on the phone. This allows you to ask important questions. Some suggested inquiries include:
- What is your experience in adoption?
- Will I be working directly with you or support staff?
- What is your response time when I have a question or concern?
- What are your primary means of communicating with clients? (phone, email, text)
- What does the adoption process look like?
- How long does it take?
Inquire About Costs
Make sure you understand the attorney’s fees and the total cost of adoption. You want to know how the costs are broken down. Find out if the attorney charges on an hourly basis, has a retainer or follows another fee structure. Ask for an itemized estimate, but keep in mind that estimates are not a precise science. Things happen that can change the initial figure. Ask the attorney what unforeseen circumstances might change the final cost.
Make a List of Specific Questions
Each family is unique, and you probably have some specific questions. Sit down with your partner or family members to create a list of questions you want to ask the attorney. This will help you identify the Florida adoption attorney who is best suited for you.
Trust Yourself
Your instincts are the best guide for selecting the right attorney. You want to work with someone who makes you feel welcome and comfortable. You should feel that the person is knowledgeable and that you are in good hands. Most of us get an uneasy feeling when things aren’t quite right. If something seems odd, just walk away and find someone else to work with your family.
Select the Right Adoption Attorney
Expanding your family through adoption is a wonderful and joyous event. However, it can also be stressful and confusing. This is why it’s important to find the right adoption attorney to help guide you through the process. Here at the Law Office of Tammi J. Driver, we strive to provide families with all the resources needed to have a smooth and successful adoption. Contact us today to schedule a consultation. 727-800-6681.
Frequently Asked Questions About Selecting the Right Florida Adoption Attorney
How do I choose the right adoption attorney in Florida?
Look for an attorney with substantial experience handling Florida adoptions, particularly the type of adoption you are pursuing. Consider the attorney’s adoption-law experience, communication style, availability, fees, knowledge of potential complications, and whether you feel comfortable asking questions and discussing sensitive issues.
How much adoption experience should an attorney have?
There is no specific number of years that automatically makes an attorney the right choice. More important is whether the attorney regularly handles Florida adoption cases and has experience with situations similar to yours. Ask how much of the attorney’s practice involves adoption and what types of adoption cases they routinely handle.
Should I choose an attorney who primarily practices adoption law?
Adoption is a specialized area involving parental rights, consent, birth father issues, court procedures, home studies, placement, and finalization. An attorney who regularly practices adoption law is more likely to be familiar with the legal and practical issues that can arise during the process.
What should I ask an adoption attorney during the first consultation?
Ask about the attorney’s adoption experience, the types of cases they handle, anticipated costs, how communication is handled, who will work on your case, and what you should expect during the process. You should also discuss any circumstances that could make your adoption more complicated.
Should I interview more than one adoption attorney?
You can speak with more than one attorney before deciding whom to hire. Comparing experience, services, communication styles, fees, and your overall comfort level can help you determine which attorney is the best fit for your adoption.
How important is communication when choosing an adoption attorney?
Communication is particularly important in adoption because some issues can be sensitive and time-sensitive. You should understand how to contact the attorney’s office, who will answer routine questions, how quickly you can generally expect a response, and how urgent matters are handled.
Should an adoption attorney explain the risks of adoption?
Yes. An experienced adoption attorney should help you understand potential legal and practical risks rather than simply telling you what you want to hear. Depending on the adoption, risks can involve consent, birth father rights, matching, expenses, interstate requirements, or other complications.
Is it a red flag if an adoption attorney guarantees a successful adoption?
Yes. No attorney can guarantee that every adoption opportunity will result in a finalized adoption. Birth parents have legal rights, circumstances can change, and unexpected legal issues can arise. An attorney should explain potential outcomes realistically rather than guarantee a placement or finalization.
How should I compare adoption attorney fees?
Do not compare fees based solely on the initial dollar amount. Ask what services are included, whether the fee is flat or hourly, what additional legal costs may arise, and which adoption expenses are separate from attorney fees. Understanding the total scope of services makes comparisons more meaningful.
What additional costs might not be included in an adoption attorney’s fee?
Depending on the adoption, additional expenses can include court filing fees, home study costs, background checks, medical expenses, allowable birth mother expenses, travel, ICPC-related expenses, and services provided by other adoption professionals. Ask for an explanation of which costs are included and which are separate.
Does the adoption attorney need to be located near me?
Not necessarily. Much of the adoption process can often be handled through telephone, email, video meetings, electronic documents, and coordination with courts and other professionals. More important than physical proximity is whether the attorney is appropriately licensed, experienced with Florida adoption law, and able to effectively handle your case.
Should I choose an adoption attorney based on online reviews?
Reviews can provide useful information about previous clients’ experiences, particularly regarding communication and service. However, reviews should be only one factor. Adoption cases vary considerably, and the attorney’s relevant experience, knowledge, services, and fit with your particular needs are more important than a rating alone.
Can a Florida adoption attorney handle an interstate adoption?
Many Florida adoption attorneys handle interstate cases, but you should specifically ask about their experience with them. Interstate adoption can involve the laws of multiple states and the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children, commonly called ICPC, so experience coordinating across state lines can be valuable.
Should I tell an adoption attorney about potential complications before hiring them?
Yes. Tell the attorney about circumstances that could affect the adoption, such as an unidentified or unsupportive birth father, an interstate placement, an existing relationship with the child, previous legal proceedings, or other unusual circumstances. This allows the attorney to evaluate the case and explain potential issues before you proceed.
How do I know when I have found the right adoption attorney?
The right attorney should have relevant Florida adoption experience, clearly explain the process and potential risks, answer your questions, be transparent about fees, and communicate in a way that makes you comfortable. You should leave the consultation with a better understanding of the adoption process rather than feeling pressured or promised a particular outcome.